My Everything Shower Routine
There’s something sacred about the everything shower. It’s not just about getting clean — it’s about coming back to yourself. About washing off the heaviness of the week and stepping out feeling brand new.
The everything shower is therapy disguised as steam. It’s the way the water hits your skin and reminds you that you’re still here. It’s soft music, warm scents, and a few extra minutes of grace — the kind you only give yourself when no one’s watching.
The Vibe
First things first: set the mood.
I light my Pistachio Macaron by La Jolie Muse candle and let its creamy, sweet scent fill the room. Then I queue up my “soft girl sanctuary” playlist — a mix of R&B, alternative, and acoustic songs that make me feel grounded.
Lights dimmed. Steam rising. No rush. Just me and the water, like a quiet conversation with my soul.
Step 1: The Pre-Shower Ritual
Before I even step in, I do a little prep — not just physically, but mentally.
I tie my hair up in a silk wrap or bonnet.
Dry brush my skin in upward motions to wake up my circulation and gently exfoliate.
Take a deep breath and remind myself that this is time for me.
It sounds small, but this moment sets the tone. It’s a pause — a transition between the world and my own peace.
Step 2: Cleanse
Once I’m under the water, it’s all about the deep clean. I start with a moisturizing body wash — something that smells like comfort. Lately, I’ve been obsessed with Olay’s “Spoonful of Sugar” or Dove’s Mango & Almond Butter.
The scent fills the space like a hug, and the warmth of the water feels like forgiveness — for every time I was too hard on myself that week.
I let the lather linger. I take my time. Because this isn’t about rushing; it’s about release.
Step 3: Exfoliate + Renew
Next comes exfoliation — my favorite part. I use a sugar scrub that smells good enough to eat (usually something vanilla or almond-based).
It’s not just about glowing skin — it’s about shedding what doesn’t serve me anymore.
Every scrub feels like a reset. Every rinse feels like letting go.
Step 4: Moisture = Love
After the water stops and the steam settles, the real self-care begins.
I pat my skin dry — never rub.
I use a rich body butter or oil (think shea, cocoa, or almond) while my skin’s still damp.
I spray a soft body mist before putting on my robe, letting the scent mix with the candlelight still flickering.
The glow isn’t just from hydration — it’s from taking the time to love myself fully, no interruptions.
Step 5: Post-Shower Peace
Once I’m wrapped up, I make a cup of herbal tea or pour a glass of ice water with lemon. Then I slip into clean pajamas, journal a few thoughts, or just sit in silence with my candle still burning.
The everything shower doesn’t end when the water stops — it ends when my spirit feels light again.
Final Thoughts
The everything shower is more than a beauty routine — it’s a ritual of renewal. A reminder that even in the middle of chaos, I can create calm.
It’s the act of choosing myself — again and again — with every drop of water, every scent, every breath.
Because sometimes healing doesn’t come from words or plans.
Sometimes it just comes from warmth, peace, and the soft reminder:
You’re still becoming.
